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Carol Sandberg's avatar

this is your neighbor Carol in #29. I would treasure real conversation with you.

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

Thank you, Carol! Are you back from Hawaii? I'd love to have coffee Saturday or Monday. Want to meet at Honey & Rye? What's a good day/time for you? See you soon.

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Judith Fetterley's avatar

love this one and agree with you completely on its rarity and its value, that is of conversation.

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

Such a loss. As I wrote, it's cheap and it should be available but somehow it's not.

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Rita C's avatar

As you state in the introduction - a real conversation NOURISHES us. There is something very satisfying for both interlocutors when we share from the depths of our minds and souls. Thank you for another great essay.

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

Thanks, Rita. Maybe that speaks to the success of Substack. People have a lot to say and no one to say it to.

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Benjamin Maisel's avatar

One of your best ever. I think about this a lot, because what’s more important than authentic connections between human beings?

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

And it has such major implications in the larger world. If we could talk and, more to the point, listen to one another, everything would be different.

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S Schaefer's avatar

Right on once again Susie! I look forward to more exterior and interior conversations with you!

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

Agreed! You and I make music.

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Zoe Finch Totten's avatar

Thank you--I love your writing and your perspective and that you share with us as you do.

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

It's a privilege, Zoe. It creates resonance in an otherwise often unresponsive world. Thank you for being a responsive reader.

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Zoe Finch Totten's avatar

Thank you, Susie--I feel so lucky to get to be one!

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Jo's avatar

"It’s difficult to sit with a friend and exchange thoughts about climate change or the war in Gaza without the entire internet crashing the party." Such a fine observation about the obfuscating, isolating peril of crushing info-overload.

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

It gets worse and worse, doesn't it? And for someone like me who is regularly adding my two cents, I feel both in need of readers and completely in tune with people who can't take it anymore.

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