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Jinks Hoffmann's avatar

I need to calibrate my fear level so that equanimity is more than a fancy word, so that there’s time and space for soft things, for beautiful things.

And one of the ways you do this, it seems, Susie, is to write!

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

I can't imagine what I'd do without it. Words just gather around and extend their comfort.

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betsy mctiernan's avatar

“The balance of our soul chemistry, and assess the situation for its radiance as well as its risks.” These are two phrases I won’t soon forget.

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

I’m with you, Betsy. We’re all on the tightrope together.

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Jo's avatar

AMEN seems like the proper response to this one on so many levels.

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

Do you think Jane would like you to read this to her? She must have been near the front of the line for those fire drills, too.

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Don Akchin's avatar

I laughed out loud at your reminiscences. Your point at the end is so on target.

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

I think that's what I must be unconsciously aiming for....laughter and insight. Could be worse.

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Don Akchin's avatar

That's absolutely the best combination. Like a spoonful of sugar...

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BKL's avatar

Wonderful piece: so captures the mood of our times.

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Apr 26, 2023
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Susie Kaufman's avatar

Appreciate your writing, Barbara. I'm searching for that middle way.

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