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That’s exactly what the monk said, that feeling guilt without knowing what to apologize for, and thinking you are less than others is a terrible—and false—emotional burden.

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I find I'm more drawn to randomness than I used to be. It washes out a lot of the biographical material.

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I remember listening to a talk by a Buddhist monk sent from India to the US to teach. He said the English words/concepts he found the hardest to understand were “guilt” and low self-esteem.

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It's amazing how culturally determined those concepts are. It must make life so much lighter and less burdensome when you aren't carrying that baggage around.

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This is a simply exquisite invitation to be in relationship with the sacredness of all life. I just finished reading Barbara Kingsolver's Demon Copperfield, and felt sad for a few days that I had left that world. I felt a little the same with this piece Susie. I didn't want it to end.

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Thank you so much. Every piece leads to another piece. I seem to think and write episodically.

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Thank you for that! And yes, I hear you……about presence……

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To be present …..so simple yet so complex.

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Certainly. It’s always my intention but I’m not always there.

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I love your ability to break down complicated, abstract ideas into simple terms that make perfect sense.

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Thank you, Don. Sometimes I feel concern about the possibility that the break down will result in glibness. Must avoid that.

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So beautiful! Joy…..hmmm…..for me it is liberation from despair and entrance into Hope and newness.

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I remember struggling with the word "joy" not that long ago and being filled with awe at your familiarity with it. You have been a teacher. I think when I write that joy and presence are of a piece, I mean that real presence allows me to be aware of pain without falling into despair. May it be so.

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