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Jinks Hoffmann's avatar

As always, you reflect on the meaty stuff, dearest Susie, in language that is so lyrical that I want to read every sentence 5 times. You could probably write about burnt porridge and I would be in tears. What a gift you have.

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

I might have to try the porridge thing. It would be a great exercise.

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Frank Gioia's avatar

Serious words on everyday life.

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

Serious business

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Patricia Boynton's avatar

Tomorrow is Christopher’s 6th “angelversary”. Don’t really know how I feel except that it’s not like those first few years of heart wrenching grief. Your words always make me pause and ponder, Susie. Blessings, Patty

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

I'll be thinking of you a little extra tomorrow.

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Carol Sill's avatar

That's a strong one! Many thanks for the poetic contemplation.

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

My pleasure....to know you and share our writing.

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Jan Peppler's avatar

Beautiful post, Susie.

I, too, was surprised when my father’s ashes weren’t ashes at all. Even more surprised when, 20 years later, my mother’s were.

Blessings to you on this blustery fall day 🍂🍁🔆

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

The materiality of ashes is hard to comprehend, isn't it?

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Jan Peppler's avatar

Ashes to ashes. Dust to dust. Very unsettling when ashes aren’t dust! And then… how does a person become reduced to just this substance in a sack?

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

Are you in touch with another dimension of what remains?

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Don Akchin's avatar

Haunting and beautiful, Susie.

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

Thanks for reading, Don

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Glenn Gareik's avatar

Yup. Thanks, as always.

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

Much appreciated, Glenn.

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