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Jan Peppler's avatar

Progress, patience, acceptance. Always an inhale, an exhale, and the moment of suspension between the two. Thank you for “dead soon”. I will remember that. ✨

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betsy mctiernan's avatar

And if not now, when? 🤣

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Barbara campbell's avatar

Susie..reading your "easy" words..I must smile because balance has always been my mantra..but then the "mean girls" show up..progress within balance

becomes murky..and "soon" is added to my balance...you enrich and soften ..

Love barbara

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

Thanks, Barbara. I am seeing that "soon" has really gotten to me. I like those long, drawn out oooos and the indeterminacy that I write about. Very pleased that you find my writing softening. I can't think of a better word to lean into.

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betsy mctiernan's avatar

This is EXACTLY what I needed to read today. Like you I am burdened with the expectation that my next step forward will be revealed, that if I’m patient and keep practicing, I won’t be slopping in the muddy waters forever. But maybe that’s just my culturally inherited idea of progress. Maybe what I see is what I get (am)—right here, right now. Thanks for these beautiful wise words.

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

Yes...I found that standing up to progress was the great gift of writing this piece. Wouldn't it be grand to let go of that tyranny?

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Patricia Boynton's avatar

Love the way you write. So spot on all the time, Susie. You nailed it again.

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

Always so pleased to hear from you, Patty. Your travels in the land outside of ordinary knowing and expectations is a great teaching for me.

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Patricia Boynton's avatar

Thank you, Susie.

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Jinks Hoffmann's avatar

What gorgeous, funny, profound, pithy invitations, Susie. I LOVE this one.

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

Thank you for giving me permission to be a jokester in the universe of big ideas. I really appreciate that.

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Alice Goldbloom's avatar

Wise. Profound. Perfect. I needed this today. Thank you.

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

So glad to be walking with you, Alice.

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